One of the essential to a life lived fully is devotion to some work or a purpose greater than yourself.
The end result of that beautiful life is how you define that work and what works. This is completely up to you to make sure the results show that the essence of your trials are in place to show you did do your best.
There is more to living and taking on the day to day activities of being a human with needs and needs to cater for. It might be providing for your family, pursuing an art, worshiping a higher power, or giving back to your community. You must find a divide between what works and what doesn't. Find something that you can throw yourself into completely.
Try to be great at something. You don't have to be "the best" at everything you do, but devoting yourself to one thing and trying to reach your fullest possible potential is an integral part of living well.
Know some guitar? Practice more.
Love life? Live it.
Can shake it like Jagger? Do the dance more.
Decent with cars? Rebuild an engine.
Like kids? Be a great parent.
Love sex? Make some more love.
Whatever you do, there must be something more to do to make it worth your while.
Living with purpose is what makes the ideas and pursuit of human nature complete. Hold the reigns and join in the bandwagon. The essences of life makes for the goodies at the end of the day.
Something bigger will never come on its own until you devote yourself to doing and feeling more than is available. normal routine makes for waiting to be met with the desires we seek. Abnormal routine says, you need to seek the greater responsibility.
I think i like the latter.