A poet says that the girl's first love is to her father, it is not excessive considering the father's role so great for her family. A good father figure who protects and protects his family can inspire his children to do the same, especially for girls that a figure like his father would become his idol when he decides to find a life companion for himself.
Fathers wherever you are right now, your duty to father is a great mandate that God has entrusted you with to care for, take care of, and raise your temporarily entrusted children. Your daughters are very unique, they are equipped with the gentle feelings that your sons do not have, so the way they educate them is different, never hurt or even destroy their gentle feelings.
As a man sometimes it is difficult to understand women's feelings, even when you are trying to understand your daughter's feelings, not all fathers are able to do this. If all the efforts you have made do not seem to work to educate your daughter, perhaps rather than the number of words or commandments you have made for them, now is the time for you to set an example through your real action.
Loving your wife wholeheartedly
Loving your wife wholeheartedly and treating her with great respect, this way is very powerful to touch into the deepest recesses of your daughter's heart. When a girl sees her father treating her mother lovingly, there is no other reason for her to reject your suggestions, because your daughter will greatly appreciate and respect you, trusting you that your suggestions must be true and that their kindness as well.Treating others with respect and courtesy
When visiting or meeting others show respect for you and politely apply in front of your daughter. Do it spontaneously and unconsciously and introduce your daughter to them, praise her and awaken her confidence when confronted with others.
Avoid harsh words
When inside a house or in a public place avoid using harsh words. When you are angry or have trouble with your wife at home try not to say harsh words or insults to your wife, or when you scold your children for making a mistake. Your patience is being tested, when you fathers are able to cope with your emotions, your children will see that their father is a patient and wise in handling any problems, you will be increasingly respected by them instead of being feared.No discrimination
Never be favoritism toward your children, treat your daughter the same as your son's son. There is no difference in duties and responsibilities within the house, just do everything fair.
Helping your wife's duties
For a man there is nothing wrong with doing a woman's tasks, such as: holding baby, cooking, washing clothes, ironing clothes, hanging clothes, sewing, and so on. A man who is willing to do a woman's work does not mean the man is feminine, but more to your attention and respect to your spouse and your daughter. Not many men are able to do this, so if you want to be a "hero" in the eyes of your daughter and wife, you do not need to hesitate or hesitate anymore doing their dutiesGirls feel loved and appreciated when helped Sometimes your daughter wants to be spoiled to you, as a man do not show your ignorance or your firmness to him. When she has difficulty in doing a task, help her to do it, because her girl's tenderness will feel more loved and appreciated if you are willing to help her sincerely. Help them to always feel comfortable and feel protected when they are around you.
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