You and I. Yes, we both know clearly what we have been through so far. What ever obstacles we face. Whatever failure we have experienced. We have sensed how hard the world we are looking for is a bite of rice. We've also tasted how it feels betrayed and heartbreaking.
Right now, I am not yet a worthy person to be a benchmark. No, it's not my capacity to hunt you. I believe that you have become a much wiser woman than I am today. Of course for 5 years since today, you've been wandering a lot and eating salt sour.
However, if one day you're down. Feeling chaotic and not knowing where to go, I want you to remember this. A message that will stop you crying for yourself and get back on your feet.
Always be a strong and independent woman. Because life is like a forest full of twists and twists.
Yes, life is not easy. Life is full of challenges. The struggle is endless. Here, your mentality will be tested. In this world, your character will be forged.
You must remember how I limped into the complicated issues of that historic year. I felt like I was dropped into a deep hole and left alone with the night's darkness. I was left looking for my own way out. Without anyone who really understands, what struggle is in the heart. Yes, a year that incised a lot of wounds. But, also many provide meaningful lessons.
What have you experienced in the last 5 years? Are there many stumbling blocks that almost stopped you? I hope any temptation that comes to you, you remain a figure of a strong and independent woman.
That tough woman does not mean she can not cry.
Crying is not a reflection of weakness. Because crying is a human thing. So, do not stem the tears if every teardrop can dampen the turmoil in your heart.
The tough woman is a woman who is not afraid of failure. He may be sad and excite. But, he will not fall asleep for too long. He will wipe his tears soon. Able to rise again and again standing on his own feet.
"Because the tough woman is not easy to complain. He has an attitude and never give up. "
Being an independent woman does not mean you do not have to get married.
You are still an ordinary human being. Humans who have limitations and have a sense of love. Married or not, it's entirely your right. Yes, getting married is not a benchmark for your independence. The definition is certainly not that tight.
Independent women are women who do not depend too much on others. She is not a spoiled woman.
So, never hang your future on anyone. Every step in your life is in your hands. So solve your problem in adulthood and decide your own decisions.
But keep this in mind. Being an independent woman when you are married does not mean you forget your responsibilities as a mother and wife.
"Being an independent woman means being self-respecting and self-empowering."
Until now, I still continue to sharpen myself. And I hope you will continue to develop into a better person. Hopefully the stride of our footsteps will remain the same and rhythmic. You know why?
"Because I will always pray for you, my future figure."
Become a strong and confident woman
Being a strong and tough woman in every way is the dream of all the women of the world. Indeed, in fact, women are
Being a strong and tough woman in every way is the dream of all the women of the world. In fact, women are created by God with their meekness. But that does not mean you as a woman must be a weak person. No woman wants weakness and helplessness to envelop her life. It's just that many of the women who choose to be weak and helpless because of their own stupidity. Because being a strong person is a choice. A strong woman is a confident lady and knows how grateful she is. Do not let other people think you are helpless and can not do anything. You certainly want to be one of the strongest character women, be strong for yourself and for the people closest to you that you love. There is much you can do. Here are just a few examples:
Strong Mind
The strong mind here is always thinking positive. Because a positive mind will lead you to positive behaviors as well. When the problem comes, do not let the chaotic mind haunt you continuously because indirectly your mental will become weak as well. Have a mature, positive, intelligent, creative, open and inspirational mind, then you are ready to be a strong and confident personStrong Heart
Have a heart that is sincere, steadfast and patient. A sincere heart reflects a fascinating person. While a strong and patient heart reflects your strong personality. Someone who is handsome / beautiful not necessarily strong heart but a strong heart will issue the aura of beauty / beauty of it by itself. In the affairs of the heart and feelings, sometimes women fall very easily and become weak. That weakness often makes you vulnerable. But when you commit to your own beliefs to be strong, rest assured you will rise when the weakness arises. Say in your heart "I am strong and must always be strong". Say the sentence when you start to fragile. These words will encourage you to become stronger in the face of emerging challenges.Strong Faith
Whatever religion or belief you embrace, you must be someone who has a strong faith. If you always involve God in every aspect of your life, there will always be ease. Your faith ethic is strong, then you will be a woman who is appreciated by others. When your faith is strong, you will always submit to God. Let everything happen because of His permission.
Being a tough woman may be a call or a life choice
some women because of a destiny. Reality in blocking the storm of life with solitude or wander over the test of life into daily meals that must be faced.
look at his spirit as hard as rocks, but also 'bending' against
waves of exams, so that even the thunder of scorn or accumulation continues to hit will not make a tough woman break apart even for a moment experiencing the destructiveness of the rushing heart.
Strong women are women who never cry, not crybaby, not easy to shed tears and not melow. While the other friends argue different, he said tough woman is a strong woman and dare to face all the trials of his life.
It is said that we see a tough woman showing her courage even though she is afraid, a tough woman gives the best of herself to others, tough women realize that mistakes in life
can bring forth kindness and constructive benefits, tough women know clearly that HE the Almighty will always sustain when he is weak or stumble, and tough women have the faith that throughout the course of his life he will grow stronger.
Confidence is very important to be a successful woman. Therefore, a strong and independent woman will always grow her confidence every time.
Although he has some shortcomings, but he believes that all his shortcomings will be covered by the confidence he has.
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