You're lucky if you have the same friends after a year. People don't change. However, their wants change. The best you can do is reciprocate. I'm in sales. Our company teaches us not to hound after those who don't want our product. You are the product. The best you can do is reach out to her every so often and make new friends in the meantime. She may or may not want you back, but that shouldn't affect your life. Otherwise, you aren't living. Hope this helps...