Mother, SIster, Wife, Daughter, the woman of our family are the most important part of our life. We may go along the whole day without knowing the things about how important they are in our life and how important their role in our life as they always there for us when we need them more.
Economic evaluation of women or men's domestic affairs has started around the world just a few years ago. Last year our research was conducted in our country, seminar-conference was done. This is not the way people have come to attention.
Family structure is primarily focused on the marriage of women and men. Both of them should work outside, or could be one, both domestic and foreign. For many reasons, men are more likely to get income out of total income. The social and economic role of women for the family, which is more than men, is much higher than that of men. A woman who does not work outside is also playing the role of*** teachers, nurses, regulators, cooks, consultants, house supervisors, and even people in the house***. There is no harm in the women's working way. A woman who is physically and mentally cheerful / active.
In the name of women's rights or women's independence, we are giving birth to strange ideas about day-to-day discrimination in society. There is no problem in the disability or inability of a woman. Her husband will not work outside. If both of them work, they will spend more money on the house for the maid/ cook / baby/ any house hold things.
Nowadays urban women love their maid more than their husbands. Funny,right but it is the truth. Due to the insulting of the house work, this savory growth gradually increases. Even the family members who handle the house are treated too lowly.
This situation is only in countries like our country. There is no opportunity to undermine any work in the socio-economic conditions of the developed country.
Workers or housewives - Whatever the housewife's family's role in the present day, be sorry! Because, they grew up with such ideas that is "Outside the work that is earning money, the work of the house is a job which is a bad job!"
They take the children of class one in private, children are suffering from disease, medicine is changing to eat for having dna structure, and if there is anything to eat, then there are also restaurants or snacks from outside. The working condition of the house is worse than the dustbin. Not only to wash the clothes, to clean the house, to clean the furniture, "The education of progressive women's independence" is the teaching of these women - eating tea by making tea in the house is also introduced to slavery!
Occasionally, mother-in-law would expect from the wives that they did not teach, do not, or do not want to see their girls. Nowadays the situation has improved further. Today's women discuss this with themselves, how much less work in a girl's house, how much her daughter can be, the lesser the less, the more modern!
Mothers do not want their girls to suffer the same things they have done in their own lives. So the mothers spend millions of rupees in fixed deposits with their children in private university, arranges in persona, sends hangouts out of Mango Café, send them to the pizza hut to treat classmates on the occasion of purchasing a new smartphone, what more!
In the house, girls are busy with nonstop mobile, internet, facebook, messenger, midnight chat, latest release movie available, facewash, three pieces, makeup, class assignments and so on. And, silent mothers are behind all the affairs of the family. Alone all alone!
It is said that women's work is to be done - "Does not my daughters had to read!" If the boys do the work of the house- "What are you doing like the girl, or the income that goes out in the past!"
No one wants girls to be in the kitchen or inside the house. But, if the car continues, two wheels should be on the front and the other two. If you start the movement of four wheelers, then the car will not run as the expected way.
Facebook has posted several pictures with a picture on the occasion of Women's Day in Bengali way. There is a reference to the comparison of women in the kitchen with friespan, house washing machine, morning snack cup, salt spoon, sandwich making machine, etc. - "Women are not an object!"
What does our mother, sister, grandmother, mother-in-law, her mother-in-law, future wife do, or play in the house, are all comparable to the object? Does not the person have the right to work, do not contribute to the family? Sufia Kamal, Begum Rokeya person; And, the Sufia wash her salwar kameez in her university, which Rokeya has saved your quality by cooking and serving delicious food for your friends, they are "objects" ?? no they are not.
Then why men will be dropped? Do men have ATM machines, checkbooks, wallet, documents of property, sperm banks, guard dogs?
Men and women who work on women's domestic affairs, and humiliate their role, in the eyes of the ignorance, they are only feminine objects. Those objects are entertainment items, marketing materials, cheap accessory objects, eye-catching objects, the sexism objects to meet.
There is no alternative to respecting the work that women have done for family, society, country, or mankind, from the beginning of the civilization to glorify the "person" woman's dignity.
Sources where I take some statistics and some ideas : Womenwatch WikiPedia Abir Chowdhury
We should respect every sort of man and woman especially in our life which will be really helpful to give more respect on their words too. Best wishes for you guys. Thanks