In the girls' circle, the most popular and frequently discussed word in the girls' circle is "women's power".
The popular term "feminine power" comes from abroad, originally referring to the traditional feminine temperament.
Girls who have a "girl's force" are always the girls who are most attracted to the opposite sex.
But the Cool girl of modern society has questioned her and proposed a new definition.
In addition to the woman's due temperament, the "women's force" is more important, is the adaptability to social life, is at any time, can live out their elegant demeanour and charm.
Are there two types of girls around you:
She may not be very attractive or sexy, but she is the most popular girl in the world, and she is not exclusive.
Career girl, but not a bit "hard", full of intellectual charm. Busy time struggle of the wind to rise, leisure time becomes the life rich lovely woman.
These two kinds of people, belong to "female force" super girl, get along with either make person very "comfortable", or let a person very "admire".
Many girls want to live out themselves as a women's charm, can be either puzzling is like of the person as a "good guy" or "no feeling", either don't become a hard struggle in the eyes of others is bad to get along with "king kong"...
In fact, there is a little bit of a woman's power.
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There is a variety show on a date abroad, four girls are very young and beautiful, go out with four boys.
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Finally, the most popular among boys and girls is not the most beautiful body, nor the most stupid, but the one who is not so lively and cheerful.
There is only one secret to the success of this most popular girl -- no one can feel the cold.
She was always the first to find a common topic to break the ice when everyone was not familiar with it.
When I first met, I actively broke the awkwardness and said, "now I am very warm." let others touch her hand to try the temperature, and increase physical contact to shorten the distance and deepen the intimacy.
The question that the boy raises is she will answer earnestly, the girl is always first to mention the interesting topic of that one, and takes care of each person's demand.
When you're with a girl, it's natural to open the conversation and talk about guys.
Everything is just right, making people feel comfortable with each other, which is a feature of "women's power".
Digging deeper is the ability to put yourself in people's shoes, which is a great philosophy of communication.
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If "ode to joy" chooses a woman's weakest role, it might be guan ju er.
Compared with the four other girls who were full of drama, she seemed to be a little more ordinary and lacking in features. She was bullied at work and got nothing in her relationship.
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But the shift occurred when she decided to change herself. Her dance teacher told her that a woman should learn to show "herself," and she did her hair, took off her glasses and changed into a new outfit.
She amazed the other four girls, also welcomed her own love.
The Chinese people are very secretive, sometimes leading girls to be afraid to show themselves and be afraid to communicate with others. Too outgoing is "unrestrained", wearing sexy is "coquettish".
And many of the girls who accepted this conservative education were shy and closed to their women, and were afraid to show themselves, and they felt that the more low-key and safe they were. The more mundane, the better.
So their "femininity" is weak, losing out to more active girls and losing to more confident men in the workplace. They are not bad, but always seem so small and powerless.
Girl, you must always remember that the strength of the women's power is self-confidence, the face of their female identity, the ability to be confident and positive to the girl, only the most beautiful.
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There are a lot of career women, but they are happy, but a lot of difference. In the most extreme cases, there is one:
A and B are the first to open A shop on the net to get rich girl, has always been A spell, even when the boss hired A group of people, friends invite her to go out to travel to relax, said she still don't have the time, her boyfriend asked her to go out for dinner, she said it's too expensive to make money not easy...
No busy during B, entrepreneurship, for themselves for two hours every day, she used the two hour fitness, bath, read a book, or skin, or do anything you want to do, don't consider during work.
This year, it happens to be the ninth year of their own online store, but their psychology is completely different.
A looks A lot older. She feels tired and tormented. B says she still wants to go on, and there are many more. Her career did not destroy her, she was more leisurely than before.
Both of them are entrepreneurs, but A has given himself to the company and B, while running the company, he has not given up running himself.
Girl, you have to have more life pursuit, also must know love oneself, self-love is also your "female power".
It is often said that women should be encouraged to forget their gender to start a business, but "to fight like a man" is not progress in gender equality. Real progress should be about understanding your gender identity, using your inherent strengths to gain respect and success.
This is why there is such a "woman" in front of the "women's force".
Those girls young in the face of the beautiful, long in the heart of the tender is remembered, melting into the blood of the backbone and the strong but neglected.
