It is said that if you are the youngest boy in your family, you’re supposed to be the spoiled one. You might have the best toys, clothes, and the best birthday parties. Obviously, these things are going to depend on the kind of family you have and the place you grow up. In my case, being the youngest in a family of six is a very tough fact. Believe me, it’s not funny at all.
So, here’s the thing: I have three sisters and they’re all very different from each other. However, they might only have one thing in common, their stupidity. Their lives have not been the best of all because…you know …they’re human beings and they make mistakes just like the rest of us.
My eldest sister used to be my role model. She is very smart, determined and independent, just like me. After she graduated from highschool, she decided to leave our hometown and move to the nearest city to study and get a degree. She met a “good” guy in this city, they aparently fell in love and got engaged a couple of years later. When everything was ready for the wedding…surprise! They broke up and started to have separate lives.
I still don’t know the reason why they made that decisión, but I think it was because they were both having affairs. Anyway, my dear sister is now married an useless man who doesn’t do anything to help her with the house chores and who once said he was not the father of my sister’s first baby boy. I was just a teenager when all this happened. They were really hard times for her. So that’s my sister, “the stupid #1” because she doesn’t take the risk of getting rid of that man just because she thinks nobody can fall in love with her again.
My second sister is…um…I don’t even know how to describe her. Um…she’s always in a bad mood and complaining for almost everything people do everyday. She’s so temperamental that it’s kind of scary and intimidating to speak to her sometimes. Her resentment comes from a hard breaking-up she had 11 years ago. Her partner, a guy who seemed to be shy at first sight cheated on her with a neighbor’s friend. My sister went even more crazy when she find out that this guy dumped this girl because he met another girl at his work….Beautiful hu…
As the years went by, my sister couldn’t be able to getover this situation. She has two children now, a boy and a girl. They’re now teenagers and they’re aware of the situation about their parents. She deeply hopes this guy comes back to her life and her house, so she can finally be happy. she’s been so pesimistic about findind another man since all this happened. For this reason, my 2nd sister is “the stupid #2”.
My third stupid sister might be the most stupid of all. She had lots of oportunities of choosing the perfect man for her. Instead of this, she chose the worst and most useless one. A man who has no aspirations or goals in life. After having a relationship with a married man for years, my sister decided to look for a single man who could help her become a mom, considering she was in her 30’s and time was against her. Her baby girl is now 4 years old and my sister’s partner hasn’t been able to get a good job or giving both my sister and niece a better life quality.
Based on all this mistakes and more, I’ve decided to write this article because I think i can’t stand it anymore. Am I getting sick of my sisters? Or it’s just a sort of disapoinment what I’m feeling now? Am I the right person to judge them considering the long list of mistakes I’ve made? Does anyone on this steemit community have a similar case with their sisters?
My mom said once: “I only gave birth stupid girls”. Now that I think, She was totally right. I inmediately noticed some disapointment in her words. When you’re the youngest, you become an observator, a listener and a critic of your oldest. You try not to make the same mistakes they made, to be more careful with the person you choose for you and to be a better person everyday.
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