Stop finding your needs within other beings. Refrain yourself from being dependent on others. Do not drag yourself to catch up, what has been lost. It was never meant to be yours. What is yours? It is YOU, that is in your possession. Look after it, cherish it. Fill it to the brim, with resoluteness. Try being blithe, stop musing over the things, that you can never change. Moreover, don't be perturbed about how others see you. If they reprimand you, its fault in their stars- not in you! You are among those Stars, that were never meant to go under vituperation. Let go all the things, that compel you to say yourself vicious. Never undermine your qualities, believe that you are capable of bringing the mountains down! You just need a little ignition, then you will see how many worlds you can explore!