You need to understand this.
There is something God deposited in you for the purpose of solving a problem either in your immediate environment or somewhere in the world.
You need to understand
That you are not a biological mistake made by your parents regardless of the circumstances surrounding your birth.
You need to
Search deep within and allow that potential God has birthed in you find expression in form of solving problems. You are a solution provider not a solution enjoyer. You shouldn't always rely on others to solve your problem. You need to ask yourself how many of other people's problem have you solved in life.
Learn to take responsibility rather than enjoy the benefits of a responsibility that others decided to take that you didn't.
LOOK AROUND YOU every thing you are enjoying today was once a problem (heat-fan, mobility-vehicle, comfort-chair, memory-pen/paper, communication-phones etc )but someone chose to proffer a solution rather than grumble and complain.
Grumbling is for babies, Solution is for men. Remember that while you are grumbling, someone somewhere is thinking of how to fix it. Ask yourself why you are not the person thinking solution. Have the solve it - fix it mentality.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
Shalom.
Your friend,
Barnabas.