Hey Reez!

Is this Reez from the Cabernet account?
I "think" I love my partner unconditionally... part of the reason for that is that I trust her. We've been together for 15 years now, and we're both confident that we make each other happier than any other person could... if someone else was better for her, I love her enough to want that change for her. I know her well enough to know she isn't a monster or a secret serial killer... we both know at some point we'll cause each other grief, but that's okay, its why we try and enjoy the here and now while everything is cool.

I love family and friends, but it always feels different.... like there's a common understanding that they'll always come 2nd.

Not sure if that helps or not, but it's possibly the most interesting question.