Marriage a bed of roses, a sweet and the most enjoyable thing that has ever happened to me.
Marriage can be defined as a relationship which is legally or formally recognised between two people, specifically between a man and a woman. It can also be defined as a relationship between people of the same sex.
It is a good thing that has ever happened to me as it is just some days to my wedding anniversary.... It is indeed a bed of roses if it's purposes are fulfilled and it's principles are well respected.
PURPOSE OF WEDDING
pix@my phone on wedding day.
Fruitfulness-The first purpose of wedding is fruitfulness, that is to multiply. This entails two people becoming three, four, five etc. Even though we are still expecting from God, we still thank HIM as he is ever sustaining.
Completeness-When you get married, you become complete as your other half become part of you that day you become engaged in holy matrimony.
Protection-The husband should serve as a source of protection for his wife, treat her like a queen. Be a shelter for her, be there for her during rainy and dry season. It is indeed a bed of roses.
Sharing ideas and suggestions-One of the purpose of wedding is to share ideas and suggestions with your spouse. The best person to share ideas with is your husband and wife because he is the one that tends to understand you most.
Enjoyment-Seriously,i enjoyed this purpose most.I come back from work and meet a delicious and well cooked food on my table without stress, I eat and also enjoy that wonderful thing designed from Almighty.
Oneness in spirit-My best companion so far has been my wife. She treat me like a king, she shared the same spirit with me, she know when am depressed and also my best moments.
CHALLENGES ATTRIBUTED TO MARRIAGE
Even though it is to me a bed of roses because have never regret going into it as early as this in life,it is faced with a lot of challenges as it is not perfect.
Financial challenges-This is the main but not a major challenges in marriage. It is a great aspect of marriage that determines extent to which the marriage can last,however with understanding,it may not pose a threat.
Never a challenge to my marriage has my wife never see money and materials as a big deal. I LOVE HER SO MUCH.
understanding-Understanding each other is also a great challenges in marriage.It is a challenge to my own marriage because we argue a lot the first three months of the Holy matrimony.However,i sat down one day and decided to undergo thorough investigation and examination about her and ever since then we have been living happily.
Learn how to ask for forgiveness-Two wrongs can never make a right, therefore you need to as husband and wife learn how to ask for forgiveness from each other in order to foster unity between yourself and to enhance the growth of the love.
CONCLUSION
Marriage can be a bed of roses if it is couple with God's rules and regulations and also with trusting each other.
It is on this note that I notify this wonderful platform of my 1st WEDDING ANNIVERSARY with the best woman in the whole world which comes up on 11-03-2018.
pix@my phone on wedding day
Part of programs laid down is the courtesy visit to penitentiary and motherless babies home towards showing love to them as I learn from this wonderful platform(STEEMIT) .
I plan to get some things for them ranging from toiletries, clothings and consumables.
Kindly wish me happy anniversary in advance fellow STEEMIANS. Thanks for your attention
God bless me!
God bless you!!
God bless Steemit community!!!
Am donkenny1992.