木兰词.拟古决词柬友 ［作者］纳兰性德 ［朝代］清 人生若只如初见，何事秋风悲画扇。 等闲变却故人心，却道故心人意变。 骊山语罢清宵半，泪雨零铃终不怨。 何如薄幸锦衣朗，比翼连枝当日愿。 To get along with a loved one should always be as sweet, warm, affectionate and happy as when we first met.