Hello steemians I know I should post more often and be more connected to the platform ... but, the internet in my house is a little bit annoying because it is the bad signal or simply people decide to borrow the connection cables and take them to who knows where for multiple uses, with the intention of scrubbing everyone. :) Then it becomes more complicated and blah excuses ... in short, today I am determined to publish before the force leaves me.

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Have you ever noticed the great influence that society has on each one of us? I say it is impressive that not wanting to reveal ourselves completely, we stop being or follow a little boss who has been there for years, haha not, but it has been so long and it is so rude to get rid of that happy standard that has been Open way so long ago that it is impossible to know if a behavior that is "different" is truly unique and not another sadly repeated attitude.

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It is curious how more and more people feel pressured to have or maintain an image that is "ideal" to avoid being judged or rejected by those who prefer to follow the same pattern as others.

It is a chain, a control so that everyone has similar thoughts that can be handled by those who consider themselves superior, the leaders who implement these standards then what happens to those who are different?

For different reasons there are always those who monitor the behavior and attitude of others, learning in this way who does not behave as "should be." This has been going on for a while now but it is progressively getting worse to the point that we know that the majority live in chains of the "what they will say" of the others and it is frightening that the new generations believe that if they are not as others want they cannot be accepted. And neither happy. It's sad but the fact of wanting to be original generates many unimaginable problems of course not missing the envious and ill-intentioned who wants to make the life of squares to others but I say why are we supposed to please everyone if that Is not it really what we want?

To comment, to dress, to listen to music, to feel different, does it make us more imperfect? ... Well, no. It makes us who we are and that is the most satisfying thing in the life of a human being to be as we really want to be. But we live in a different reality, where the greatest reward is for the one who is more false either from his personality to his body. They stop admiring the good natural qualities just to appreciate the most false, great! We are all superficial at the bottom because of course society influences so much that it ends up permeating the bones, but many recognize their imperfections and try to live according to improve the qualities and accept who they are because if so they came to the world physically and so the world returned inwardly. That said, society is overwhelming when it wants to be and collapses many dreams and hopes for those who do not follow the vicious cycle of "perfection".

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It's hard? They have, that's where we see bullying and collective rejection by those who decide to be true to themselves and keep their opinions say what they say.

Start from your neighbors, then school although in college there is more freedom always people criticism appearance, personality and of course at work the fortunate few. Why not?

But I personally prefer to live and die even so most do not accept me for who I am to live with a mask and being unhappy because in this ruthless world, you always find someone who is as original and different as you are the power to grow and waiting for someone to finally understand you is undoubtedly very hard because we all want to fit in just with 1 person but it is worth accepting and deciding what your options are for living or in some cases surviving when around you live pure people of the toxic sea. That's why it would be best to take advantage if opportunities appear around you to do something that you are good at and passionate about since you would be fighting for something you love and what you could live happily on.

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