Ok Sorry I didn't read the Utopian rules directly, I was eager to try utopian :) I will dive in more in it now.

That's not an easy choice, but let's hope that you'll get to what you need fast enough so you can be with your children. They are very important, you're right! Welcome here!

Just go to I discovered it at my local crypto meetup the other day. I'm also jumping on the steem/d.tube/busy.org train. I'm sure it will be a hell of a ride.