A lot of people say you should apologise - and apologise first - because you value the relationship over being right (i.e. winning the argument). Personally, I'd say: What kind of relationship do you value?

Ugh... One symptom I forgot to mention that I can get with my heart pains is headaches. And even when they don't hurt that badly, it's harder for me to think straight... or at least to recall words. Aaaand

So... I wanted to avoid doing any rants, especially on places like this blog, because it's not really how I want to do things. But in this situation... it really just seemed appropriate, for a number of

It worries me that so many people say they hate a person/character/group for their actions - instead of maybe loving them anyway, but being disappointed, or something. 😢 Regardless of religious beliefs,

Didn't mean to take this long (life stuff), but anyhow... So I was talking with my dad earlier. He briefly said (in his... smiley form of sarcasm) 'What do you think? We need to suppress war to have peace?

So I use the self-care app Finch. It has a thing where you can see a random affirmation or quote when you open the app for the first time in a little while (like, an hour or something). They seem to have

Hiya! You may call me Infranscia. Or Infran, or Scia (or whatev). That's what I generally go by these days around the Web. I'm female - cis if you insist. I don't like introducing myself in terms of pronouns