I do agree and understand your side but you know in a relationship there should be a give and take right somewhat a communication -- a two-way process. It is not about nagging about your partner's attitude but it is like hoping for a situation to come that someday you will also feel that you're not just like anybody that your partner knows that your his girlfriend. Yes, girls are sometimes dreaming about fantasies but you know girls are always girls they should be treated as one. Just my opinion though haha. But nice point
make sense
RE: "Is there a way to convince my boyfriend to put more effort into our relationship?"