As a simple specimen of this planet I would like to offer some piece of my mind to the *extra-terestrial visitor like you Hive account@the-alien.

You say that it's not a medical exam when I go and talk to a girl....
You are right, its way worse.... My life is at stake.

You see, when I go and talk to her I risk her rejecting me and being humiliated by that, and everyone in my tribe seeing that and then rejecting me for I clearly lack value if I got rejected so I can't provide for anyone else. Clearly my value got even lower because there is already someone who rejected me so everyone else in my surrounding will be more likely to do that ...
And because of that I will be expelled from my tribe, becoming hungry, sad and dying alonein an empty abandoned cave :(.

And even worse, what if she is dating a tribeleader and he will come and club me to death (hopefully with a club, not some club music - as the other one would be pure torture) and I die instantly ...???

This, my alien friend, is why I struggle the most with in my life and attempt to fit in to this mad of a world ...