If you are confused as to why many PDKTs fail before "invented", maybe one of the causes is the guy or girl who is overly expecting more, then leads to an aggressive nature. Sure there is a problem

Assalamu'alaikum mblo... Sudah bisa move on belum ? jangan kelamaan deh, ntar keburu tua. dari pada PDKT sama yang baru atau balikan sama mantan, trus kamunya nangis, galau lagi, rapuh lagi, jomblo lagi.