I used to wait for the big signal. A sign. A clear yes or no. Life doesn’t really work that way, at least not anymore. Now I make peace with not knowing. I do the laundry. I water the plants. I keep the

When I was younger, I thought grown-ups had it all together. They knew what to do, what to wear, how to talk at dinner parties. I waited for the moment I’d feel that way too. It never quite arrived. Now,