Arip Official Ask a woman with a question, "Are you still a virgin?" It may seem unethical and impolite, though actually still very relative and conditional in expressing it. But certainly difficult for women to answer that. Some women think of it as privacy, and some (especially men) assume that the information needs to be known before they walk in marriage bonds.
But you know, it turns out, the meaning of virginity that we understand it is different in different parts of the world. Admin will not deliberately write the area elsewhere specifically, but who wants to Admin deeply discussed is the diversity of understanding of the meaning of virginity. Well, let us consider, whether the concept of virginity is already right for us, or not?
- Virgin if you have never had sexual intercourse
It seems, this is the most widely held understanding by Indonesians, when asked about virginity. Women are considered still virgins if they have never had sexual intercourse with others. That said, usually it is marked by the incomplete hymen of the woman's first night. However, in certain cases, when women accidentally tear their hymen due to a vehicle accident for example, it is still considered a virgin.
Virgin despite having contact with many people
Quoted from kompas.com (accessed 20/04/2018), in western countries, though not all, consider women who have intercourse with many people is still a virgin on the first night with a husband. The woman and husband, on the first night after the wedding procession, seemed to be in a plain and innocent situation of giving up that sacred moment. Virginity is considered new when the relationship is done with her husband (although previously had thousands of intercourse with many people).Virgin if not childbearing
Quoted from liputan6.com (accessed 20/04/2018), in the other hemisphere, there is also a presumption if a new virginity is considered to be completed if a woman has given birth to a child. If the child has not given birth, despite having sex with many people, or married with her husband and having intercourse many times, but still not giving birth to a child, the woman is still considered a virgin.
How to Friend steemian after knowing the meaning of virginity that is not just one kind of it. The above three concepts have not represented the whole view of people in various worlds, there are still many other views that have not been revealed. It's just that the 3 is the most widely understood by people in different parts of the world to this day. Amidst the diverse cultures and developments of the times, you yourself consider the virginity to be what kind of steemit? Hmm, do not get me wrong concept