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There could be an emergency when the real parent of a child may not be around for a while or when the child may have to travel for an important occasion in another town, and there would be no family or friend in mind to look after the child except the person’s ex.
If that is the case, and you were in that position, would you allow your child go and stay with him?
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For some people, their answers would depend on the way they and their ex ended their relationship. If the relationship ended with a serious fight, then it would be a no no, but if it ended based on a mutual understanding with no hard feeling, then there would be no big deal.
For some others, no matter what lead to the break up, they believe that an ex already belongs to their past, so there is no way they can entrust their child into his care.
Others believe that no matter what, the ex might be jealous and harm the child if he secretly still holds a grudge over the way they ended their relationship. In line with that, they would prefer for the child to stay in a hotel.
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Others might think it would be a big deal if their spouse finds out as it can bring trouble into the marriage and even end up destroying the home as there would be re-connections, and those with flexible hearts would be in danger of this.
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My perspective: I don’t think allowing a child to stay with an ex is a good idea. You never can tell the person that really has a good intention for you and since he is your ex, you never can tell what’s up with him at the moment because he might have changed from the person that you knew.
So what is your view? Can you allow your child/children to squat with your ex for a few days, weeks, months or years, depending on the time of your child’s programme?