You have the power to change your own life in such a positive way.
So you want to be thinner? You want to be healthier and feel better about your body?
You want to create a great habit and/or change bad habits in your life?
YOU have the power to change that and YOU are the only person who can truly make you happy.
Not a significant other, not friends or family. These people can support you and love you, yes. But ONLY YOU have the power to make yourself truly happy. I think this is a point that many people miss and if you want to create positive changes in your life, then go out there and make that happen. Not tomorrow, not the next week. Today.
For example, I dreamed of stepping on stage and competing in bodybuilding. I dreamed of becoming a strength athlete and becoming STRONG. I had to buckle up, create great habits in order to meal prep, pose everyday when I was continuously losing weight for my competition and cut out a large part of my life (social life, foods I enjoy, time with family) to do so.
It's hard, nobody will contest that. BUT all it takes is for you to take that first step towards a journey. It's worth it and I can assure you that you will be happier for taking on a journey towards your own goals and achievements.
Here is a little transformation picture of what I went through during my different phases of being a young skinny guy in high school, to beginning to lift and bulk, and then to when I began to cut weight for my competition. As you can see I worked my ass off and don't regret one minute of any of it.
What's your goal and what will you do to achieve it?