Good day wonderful steemians....
In my introductory post, I talked about being a freelance relationship counsellor. Today, I'll like to discuss something trending in our generation now; inability of our women to get good men to love them, care for them or ultimately marry them. Even after marriage, most women still find it very difficult to keep their homes intact with their husbands with them.
For any relationship to work out and get a confirmation at the altar, some things must have come into play and the approach to these things from both parties goes a long way in the survival of the relationship. In the course of this write-up, I'll be talking about the ladies and what they need in their relationships to convince their men to wife them.
However, I categorise everything a woman needs to command and control a man's respect into four main points that will be discussed concisely below.
- Good Kitchen Ethics: There is a common saying that the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So as a woman, ability to prepare delicious and exquisite meals is a mandatory trait you should possess. Naturally,men are creatures that cherish good food, though, there is a saying that, to every rule, there will always be exceptions. Men that don't like good food are very few around. So as a woman,if you can make good food of different varieties, that gift can lure men to your doorstep more than you can ever imagine.
In other words, make your kitchen the best restaurant he always wants to visit anytime he goes hungry.
picture taken from https://www.reluctantgourmet.com/female-chef-trade-organizations/
- Good Hygiene Practice: As a woman, the ability to be clean in and out goes a long way to determine whether your dream man will stay with you or not. It is one thing to get a good man, it is another thing to keep him as yours. It is known fact that men don't like dirty women that can't take care of themselves. Personal hygiene is very important because it involves taking good care of the body and because the female body is an open one, good personal hygiene helps prevent diseases and infections. As a woman, you must also be a good cleaner, because keeping our environment clean is a very necessary thing to always do so as to avoid diseases and sicknesses. For example, an environment that is well taken care of will not breed mosquitoes, cockroaches and other household pests. Cleanliness they say, is next to Godliness. And also, health is wealth, so when you are healthy, you are wealthy.
picture taken from healthable.org
- Bedmatics: I'm not sure if this word exists in dictionaries, but that is what I call it. If as a woman, you have all the other qualities a woman should possess but you cannot provide sexual satisfaction for your man, then you have automatically dashed him out to another woman. Majority of men love two things by default, FOOD and SEX. That's why I advise most of my female friends to read books, sex magazines and watch movies on how to satisfy a man in bed. Some women believe only men enjoy sex, they will think in their minds or even say it; do what you want to do and get off me. When a woman cannot satisfy the sexual desires of her man, the man will find the satisfaction somewhere else and in a twinkle of an eye, he's far gone. So if you are a woman,either young or old, single or married, try to find answers to his questions in the bedroom. You can do this by asking him questions, study him, check the media, so as to know his preference in bed. What you pronounce difficult is not difficult to the next woman that will satisfy him, though, I'm not ignoring the fact that some men are insatiable, as a woman, just do your best. If you can follow the necessary rules and you know what he wants, you will always be his choice when he needs to share his bed.
pictures taken from istockphoto.com
- Moral Balance: Based on my research, I discovered that the most important virtue in a human's life is ATTITUDE. No human is complete or perfect as regards behavioral pattern, but the ability to maintain a good moral balance helps to keep a man. Men specifically hate nagging women and nagging is an attitude that is commonest in women. As a woman, avoid nagging,be patient, tolerant, respectful and amongst all, trust your man and the probability of him being yours forever is on the high side.
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