I thank you for your post it is very helpful to me, at this time. I had forgiven my Mom for not taking care of me at the age of three years, thereby, two frequent guests were able to sexually molest me while visiting us. I had forgiven her for allowing my step Father verbally abused me until the age of twelve because right at the age he asked her to chose between him and me, she chose him and ever since I had been out her life, but for a little while she need economical help so I was able to help her and her family out economically and bring them into this Country, too, but I don't think she appreciated it because someone told me that she and her children do not hold a good opinion of me. I wanted to establish a good relationship with them, but as I said to one of my sisters, Mom had me, but I never had her, as the late John Lennon states it in one of his songs. I spoke to my Mom last week, I told her to pray the scriptures for her healing, to be careful to speak since our words activates the demonic forces, to live in peace with everyone, but she got very upsept about it and replied that she did not fight with anyone and so on and so for, so I had decided not to call her anymore forget about having a relationship, but I want to make sure I had forgiven her from my heart since my forgiveness from God depends on my forgiveness to others. Once again thank you for your post.