Your mother, she looks at you as the reflection of being brave and strong. Although adult decisions affected your childhood. She made sure to take care of you and love you as much as possible, I admire your mother because she went ahead and got out of debt. This ring should carry on to the next generation and whoever sells it to pay for expenses, it still remains in their hearts of family memories. In the meantime take care of her and always tell that story to her children or nieces and nephews.