Jealous people, dangerous people and ...

Insecure, relationships of couple or friendship, in bonanza, are never put to the test. Things flow easily there, don't they?

No one in their right mind accepts mistreatment. Love has nothing to do with that, because what exists is dependence, submission, emotional problems or personality disorders, but love as such, no, not love.

No way.

It is when crises or problems of various kinds come, when loves discover their mettle. Why? Because one knows that someone truly loves you when in the bad times they are with you without any kind of fear.

When it comes to having a partner, the first questions we should ask ourselves are these... Am I the type of person I would choose as a partner Would I trust someone like me to start a relationship,... Am I willing to bring happiness to my partner?To think that there are people who can only love by complaining, pointing, questioning their partner with others, of these characters I can say that they exist like chopped rice.

And this dissociation from complaining can be a way of taking care of the other and if the complaint is victimized it covers up the punishment for the aggression. The important thing is not to forget, the fate of hatred in a relationship, because, no one loves, without hating the other.

At least, I think with a good conversation with your partner, save the day. If the separation happens anyway because of jealousy, there is no choice but to accept it but it should not be taken as a decision.

We believe that whoever loves cela, however, paradoxically, it is as if we need a wear and tear of our love life and less intense relationships, than those of the first loves, to reach a love that can be lived.

So bluntly...are you there in that relationship because you want to... or because you've already got used to it?

Because a lot of people don't stay because of love, they stay because of fear. Fear of starting over, of being left alone, of accepting that something has changed.

And one is pretending that nothing is happening. One adapts. One endures, and is convinced. Until one day one realizes that she is no longer happy, she is just there, because habit becomes refuge, stability is not the same as stagnation with a person who no longer loves you, love is felt, habit only weighs a ton, and none of them look alike...

I also think that the freedom to be and to be where we want and with whom we want is all that is right. It is unacceptable to condemn us, unless that. It's never an easy decision, by no means is it. In the same way, it's the same, to walk towards the solution that leads us to have peace of mind and brings us closer to happiness, even if that means renouncing the habit and the known.

Definitely, the couple and friendship are measured in the bad and enjoyed in the good. The rest is dust and chaff, carried away by the wind, literally. By the way, and in bad times we know what a fundamental role family, friends play. The most trivial thing would be to believe that he does not love her or her, and therefore suggest a separation.

Janitze.🌷❣️