For example, is like some high-risk sport, and by the way, it is our daily bread, self-censorship has even reached the networks under penalty of prison, even if you risk having an opinion.
We all have the right to have an opinion, to say what we would like as long as it does not hurt us or hurt others and that it is within what is civilizational, synderesis and good custom.
I am sure that if we keep that rule based on our opinions, then we can express the opinion that we really want. The important thing is not to be bothered by the police, GPS, and censors about our opinions.
Opinions are free, now, that's different from dictating something or determining an element that we don't know in property and, then, passing an a priori judgment on that, that's another thing, but when a personal opinion arises, and they talk about my life and body, those who always start with a "with all due respect" or the classic, "you're very pretty, but," and shoot passive-aggressive comments, that I would never tell anyone, I never allow it, not on social networks, not in my real and everyday life.
They are the ones who start telling you "that you should not think like that" you should feel so that you should not say that, even the famous ones appear "get informed, better before giving your opinion" you should know more about the topic before giving your opinion or saying something like that.
And this applies to all spaces where I live, especially when we talk about anything, the know-it-alls always come to tell you "you should get informed, about it"... And blah, blah, blah.
Just like the opinion experts do by trade, about other people's lives and bodies, those who always start with a "with all due respect" or the classic, "you're very cute, but," and fire passive-aggressive comments, which personally, I take care in my words not to make value judgments that hurt neither me, nor others.
No one says that they have to agree with opinions, but people do have the right to have an opinion; even the family occasionally says what to do, where to go, the thing is strong, ha, ha, ha with them... Right?
Many times we have to deal with people on social networks who always want to impose their opinion and discard ours.
I think that who speaks and thinks behind my back, is in the right place, spends too much time busy on that "he /she's behind me" because they talks without knowing, without knowing me they do it from the sidewalk in front, they will criticize me everywhere, it's not up to us to judge, nor to carry on the war on the keyboard, at least I've learned not to pay attention to those who are behind me.
I call them "the truth cops." They always think they are right, they question absolutely everything that others say and think, and not only that, they practically send you to shut up. When this happens to me, I send them for the fuck.
To handle these situations without losing my calm or time, I always defend my right to express my opinion, without censoring myself, without keeping quiet, and above all, without letting others trample over that right to express myself, and come to impose their judgment Has something similar happened to you? Tell me in the comments, how did you handle it, share your experience.
Janitze.
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