That's what real people look like...

I love to write about this topic today, which is mother's day in my country, because I find myself in that truth, I am aging happily, stable and healthy. I cannot hide a single year lived, I have rather to thank God especially for each one of them, for the good times and for the bad also because the sum of all place me where I am today, just where I want to be.

My legs, my hands, my brain still work, in short all my organs continue to work enough for my standard and quality of life, today at my age I value much more than before who I am and those around me, I value my humanity.

As it should be here and now without so much stress for which they will SAY in the month of June I turn another year of life, I am approaching more age and I am a woman grateful to God, Life, The Universe, for each and every one of its blessings, my beloved daughters and my husband.

I love to highlight the value of natural to age in my own way.

I enjoy love and sex the most and I want more in my life, it's a pity that life is so short to be so brief, I don't think about that, but we have to keep living to the fullest, as long as there is life and health there is hope. I do not blind that a certain clothing model looks equally beautiful on all body types. What we should not do is feel less than other women. I think it's about improving our body and that's it.

We can accept ourselves as we are, but if it can be improved to look better. Why not? This implies taking care of me, appreciating every part of my body, being kind starting with oneself, being authentic to strengthen self-esteem, self-love and stop this false fashion of editing and pretending what is not. I may have an interest in looking good but not with an eagerness that exhausts me, after all, a good company is more important than a nice waist.

I'm human and the rest is a luxury.

As real as the air we breathe. He loves me and accepted me as I am. Most of the people who criticize the most are those who have real bodies but are so self-conscious that they unload their complexes by criticizing others. I wish and the mentality of many would change so that everyone can show themselves real and bullying ceases to exist.

The physical body is a process and like every process it undergoes changes that no matter how hard it is tried it cannot be stopped. The years are changing my appearance, but it heals my soul, and gives wisdom, I am still essence inside, feeling, loving and wanting to be loved.

By the way, I Have marks of battles won and others lost, fat in my abdomen because I have a lot to do, and I can't be at the gym all day, it's tastier to live, I have scars from cesarean sections or sagging from childbirth and breastfeeding because I have daughters whom I breastfeed for 1 year each, then I had breast cancer and the scars remained, I have gray hairs and wrinkles where the smiles and tears go, stretch marks, and sometimes I get varicose veins, I have all that because I dare to LIVE, and even so I feel better than ever and grateful for everything i have achieved in life.

I go along with his impetuosity, when he wants me to move, and I use his strength in my favor to manage my vital energy.

There is the key, to enjoy every moment to the fullest, to feel full, happy and in harmony, it is still a choice. I think that no extreme is good. Now I accept myself and take care of myself without anxiety, I ride a bike, I do yoga, I listen to music, I love, I surround myself with people who value the same things as me, to live in balance to the fullest.