A calm nervous system.
The perfect is the enemy of the good and the good of the good is that it can always be improved. He suffers a lot!!! Sometimes it can be the fault of not meeting someone else's expectation, which of course we will not control.
I have a sister who everyone in the family called super smart. It really was, but I think that set me up to look for perfection in everything!!! I grew up with that. I thought everyone loved her, my sister, more than me. Until one day, I realized that we all have intelligence, some more developed than others. I learned to accept my mistakes, and to enjoy the road.
You always learn from mistakes and you can even do something much better, without challenge and without mistakes I think everything would be very boring.
We must be able to change the relationship that each of us has with error, and stop doing things impeccably and stop having the personal version of the perfect.
You have to learn to trust, but you have to go with people who know, not with the ignorant. Perseverance, discipline and perseverance are more important than talent.
The overvaluation of reason, logic, analysis and thinking began in Greece, in the eighth century, before Christ, and that has done so much damage to humanity that feeling is despised. So many people have emotions and feelings, in shadow, that's why we are as we are. And so little awareness of it, that empathy and tenderness are considered irrelevant.
It's kind of weird how we require ourselves to produce income and get fees and stuff all the time. A few years ago I might have felt fear, and guilt for taking so much time for myself and what I like to do the most.
Luckily I'm learning to accept my limitations and understanding more that we need to rest and dedicate quality time, as much as we need to work.
Many times my work is art, it is my moment of rest and reflection, it is that pause that restarts me from another place. For some generations it is necessary that they learn to give themselves that space, prioritize themselves and learn not to feel guilt, and with enjoyment, to be able to create and heal.
With faith, discipline and intelligence, you don't let your guard down or let up, not even underwater, people.
May this day be the time to get back into the rhythm, clear the mind and recharge the soul and may we not miss that cup that changes everything, a good coffee.
And whatever it is, if there is health, nothing is the end of the world.
Happy Day! ... Janitze. 🌹
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