Hello friends of this community; Imagine that you suddenly realize that you actually have control of your life, just as your parents had control of the television when you were a child, but now you have it, so what is going to happen when you want changes, because no one is going to do it? to come and do them for you, like when you realize that if you start to change your chip, to feel differently, to move differently, your world is transformed, your life is basically the reflection of what happens in your head, of how you feel and how you act and that control, that magic, is all in your hands.

The moment you take charge, you begin to see how everything around you begins to take on another color, every change begins with a change in mentality, that is the basis of everything, if I had not left aside my old beliefs in relation to deservingness, for example, and my ability to prosper, if I had listened to the people who told me to “stay in a secure job,” “that I was not going to find anything better.” Oh, if I had not been consistent with my own values, I would not be respecting who I am in essence.

And this is the trick, to stop feeling like you are living in a novel that someone else is writing, if you find yourself blaming what is outside, waiting for the universe to conspire in your favor so that you can move, it is Time to turn the story around and stop paying attention to what others think, many people are paralyzed by the fear of what they will say, but you know that is like walking in circles.

Those who are really having it out there and living happily, don't bother with what people think, are too busy doing their thing, living their best life to get distracted and waste their time with nonsense, have realized Realize that neither applause, nor even criticism, is going to pay their bills, increase their self-esteem, build the life they dream of, in the end what others think of you is like the weather on Venus, it is interesting perhaps but It doesn't affect you at all in your day to day life.

I myself was a clear example of that for years, I was paralyzed by the fear of what people might think of me, I didn't do many things for fear of other people's judgment, also because of my low self-esteem, you have wanted something for 7 or 8 years and not doing it for fear of what someone might think, it's sad, it's sad to realize that you are putting the opinion of others, whether they are known or not, above your own, above your own desires and when I finally decided doing what I like, I realized how irrelevant the opinion of others was to my life because no one except you is going to live your life, so worrying about what they say or think about you is rather an additional limit that like any another limitation will get you nowhere.

I understood that those who hate themselves will probably hate and criticize others, those who judge themselves will judge others, the way we interact with the world and with others is a reflection of how we treat ourselves, so So the next time you worry about someone's opinion, ask yourself if that person really inspires you, helps you, loves you or lives the life you would like to live, if your answer is no, ignore them.

On many occasions those people who criticize or try to belittle others have never built anything significant in their lives and this is because those who need to put others down are operating from a much lower frequency and people who vibrate high simply do not know. They are affected by those who vibrate at a lower frequency, there is no compatibility and you give power to these people every time you decide to listen and give importance to their opinion.

Think about it this way, being affected by what others think of you is ultimately your decision, if you are clear about who you are you don't need anyone to even come with a megaphone to remind you, there are people who, since they don't have affection for each other, go through life looking for likes , acceptance and applause as if they were oxygen, because inside them there is like a misconfigured GPS, which does not let them see who they really are.