Algo que he aprendido a lo largo de mi vida, es que no tenemos el control de todo y que muchas veces debemos atender a lo que la misma vida nos indica.
La verdad, a veces me preguntó porqué de algunas situaciones, porqué a veces queremos estar en todo y para todos, cuando muchas veces lo mejor es tomar distancia o simplemente dejar que suceda o que se rompa.
Pensaba que tener el control bajo cualquier circunstancia era lo ideal, sin embargo ver amenazada mi integridad física y la de mi familia, me enseñaron que hay cosas que debemos soltar y que de seguro mejores vendran.
La vida es un ir y venir, todo continúa estés o no estés y son en esos precisos momentos donde nos damos cuenta, que no somos impresindible en la vida de nadie.
Colocar todo en una balanza e identificar que vale o no la pena es una gran decisión, conectar conmigo, anteponer nuestra estabilidad emocional es un gran paso para cuidar nuestra salud mental.
Durante estos meses he vivido situaciones que me han enseñado a regular ese control de todo he aprendido que está en mis manos y que no, que vale la pena y que no, quienes tienen que estar en tu vida y quien no.
En situaciones difíciles sabemos quién está y quién solo intentaban estar, poco a poco aprendo a soltar a darle a cada quien el lugar que merece en mi vida, además de a qué o quién empleo mi tiempo.
Nunca sabemos que va a pasar y eso es mejor que intentar saberlo todo, aceptar que no tenemos el control, que es necesario fluir y conectar para poder crecer y saber hasta donde podemos llegar.
Conectar conmigo es una gran oportunidad para mí, aceptar que no todo lo puedo controlar es un gran paso, que ayuda a mantener mi seguridad y confianza en mí misma y me enseña hasta donde debo llegar y hasta donde debo soltar, eso que nos rodea.
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I am not in control of everything
Something that I have learned throughout my life, is that we are not in control of everything and that many times we must attend to what life itself tells us.
The truth, sometimes I wonder why some situations, because sometimes we want to be in everything and for everyone, when many times the best thing to do is to take distance or just let it happen or break.
I thought that being in control under any circumstance was the ideal, however seeing my physical integrity and that of my family threatened, taught me that there are things that we must let go of and that better things will surely come.
Life is a come and go, everything goes on whether you are there or not and it is in those precise moments where we realize that we are not indispensable in anyone's life.
Putting everything on a scale and identifying what is worth it or not is a great decision, connecting with me, putting our emotional stability first is a great step to take care of our mental health.
During these months I have lived situations that have taught me to regulate this control of everything, I have learned what is in my hands and what is not, what is worth it and what is not, who has to be in your life and who does not.
In difficult situations we know who is there and who was just trying to be there, little by little I learn to let go and give everyone the place they deserve in my life, as well as who or what I spend my time with.
We never know what is going to happen and that is better than trying to know everything, accept that we are not in control, that it is necessary to flow and connect in order to grow and know how far we can go.
Connecting with me is a great opportunity for me, accepting that I can't control everything is a big step, that helps to keep my security and confidence in myself and teaches me how far I have to go and how far I have to let go, that which surrounds us.
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