MOMOMAD - How to have a long-term relationship?

Hi everyone,
Welcome to my post! This is my entry for the #monomadchallenge.

Have you ever thought that you are in a stable relationship with your lover? And have you ever wondered what can sustain a love relationship for so long?

1. Never share everything about you including your parents, girlfriend, or brothers with anyone. Because the more people you know, the greater the conflict between the two of you.
2. Learn to find common ground while keeping differences. Try to enlarge the common ground between the two of you and strengthen the tacit understanding between the two of you. Of course, still respect each other's differences because you remember that you are looking for an object, not a second self.
3. The three core needs of men are: To be admired! Recognized! Supported! The three core needs of women are a sense of security! Form! Feeling pampered! No matter what happens, always put the other person's needs first.

1. No matter who is right or wrong, when a girl is crying, a man should stop complaining and bow his head to admit his mistake first. After the guy apologizes, the girl should stop questioning to save face for her boyfriend.

2. Keep a proper distance, don't get too intrusive in his world. He and you are just falling in love, not signing a bust contract with you at all.

3. Never compare your partner with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend. Don't compare your present with your ex. You will start to feel jealous when you see expensive gifts that other people give their girlfriends, but you don't know, maybe those girls have prepared similar gifts for their boyfriends as well. ta. Every couple has their own way of getting along and everyone has their own advantages. Don't use other people's standards to measure your love, maybe someone is secretly jealous of you.

1. Many people misunderstand that as long as they stick to the other side, they won't leave them. In fact, how long your partner stays with you depends on whether you're comfortable with each other. Give him the right amount of privacy, don't ask questions, don't be jealous, and don't force them to explain. The more you question the other person, the more guilt you will feel. If they are afraid that you will be sad or worried about you, they will voluntarily be honest.

1. As long as it doesn't involve issues of principle, support the other person's choice and let him/her do what they like. When the two of you are together, the more you support him, the more love they will have for you.
2. Remember to compliment your other half often, it's not just women who like to hear good things. Men also love to hear compliments and compliments are the most inexpensive gift in a relationship. Anyone can do it, anytime and anywhere as long as you want and it can make both people have the simplest happiness.

1. Cultivate shared interests, and don't lose sight of your own. It's easy for two people to have no common ground after a long time together, but you should remember that common themes are based on shared experiences, so when both of them do more interesting things together, naturally there will be a common theme.
2. You have to lower your expectations in love. Many arguments stem from what you think the other person should be doing, but the other person hasn't lived up to your expectations. When you can lower your expectations and be less demanding, you will be able to reap the unexpected in love.

Thanks for reading my post!!!
Have a nice day.😋