La dura batalla de sobrevivir en venezuela me llevo a contar la breve historia de mi suegro de 85 años llamado MARCOS ,que cuenta con 9 hijos una esposa . Mi suegro padece de multiples enfermedades y aun asi lo considero un milagro de Dios por que sobrevive con una operacion de corazon abierto, un ACV izquemico , cancer de prostata y alzheimer.Es triste decir que Mi suegro fue aislado familiarmente de su esposa e hijos por su condicion , cuyos 9 hijos, uno de ellos nunca tubo hijos la cual le dedica todo su tiempo junto conmigo, es la dura batalla de mi esposa y mi persona, mientras los demas hijos lo han olvidado. y sin posibilidad alguna de recibir apoyo economico y moral de los demas.La lucha incansable de mi esposa por llenar a su padre de vida cada dia y tratanto de entrar en sus sueños con musica de su epoca, marcos es su nombre , el tararea con vagos recuerdos y emociones su fugaz vida, mas sin embargo tienen momentos muy amargos e incontrolables por que marcos al no poder caminar vive como niño.
The hard battle to survive in Venezuela led me to tell the brief story of my 85 year old father-in-law named MARCOS, who has 9 children and a wife. My father-in-law suffers from multiple illnesses and yet I consider him a miracle of God because he survives with an open heart surgery, a stroke, prostate cancer and Alzheimer's. It is sad to say that my father-in-law was isolated from his wife and children because of his condition, whose 9 children, one of them never had children and who dedicates all his time with me, is the hard battle of my wife and me, while the other children have forgotten him. The tireless struggle of my wife to fill her father with life every day and trying to enter his dreams with music of his time, Marcos is his name, he hums with vague memories and emotions his fleeting life, but nevertheless they have very bitter and uncontrollable moments because Marcos can not walk and lives as a child.
Marcos bajo su llanto , rebeldia y ansiedad hace que su hija adopte un caracter mas fuerte para sobrellevarlo ya que no es facil, un dia en la vida de marcos es una constante batallar en su alimentacion y aseo personal , por ejemplo su alimentacion tiene que ser suave y que no le cueste mucho masticar por que se ahoga hasta con su saliva, no se le puede dar carne resulta ser muy peligroso para digerirlo en cuanto a su aseo personal es muy duro porque se hace encima y el olor de su orine es muy fetido por eso recomendable toda aquellas personas que tenga una situacion igual, usar guantes,mascarilla y siempre mantener detergente guardado ya que es importante lavar su ropa a diario.
Marcos under his crying, rebelliousness and anxiety makes his daughter adopt a stronger character to cope with him because it is not easy, a day in the life of Marcos is a constant battle in his feeding and personal hygiene, for example his feeding has to be soft and that it does not cost him much to chew because he chokes even with his saliva, You can not give him meat, it is very dangerous to digest it, as for his personal cleanliness it is very hard because he poops himself and the smell of his urine is very foul, that is why it is advisable for all those people who have the same situation, to use gloves, mask and always keep detergent stored because it is important to wash his clothes daily.
Marcos solo tiene la posibilidad de usar solo pañal ecologico ,ya que es muy costoso comprarle pañal de adulto.resultando un calvario de lavarlo para por lo menos usarlo en las noches.
Mi suegro pasa su mañana y tarde escuchando su musica favorita ya que esto le sirve de terapia mental y le ayuda a relajarse ,claro bajo supervision mia para que mi esposa tenga tiempo de hacer otra cosas.
Marcos only has the possibility to use only organic diapers, since it is very expensive to buy him adult diapers, resulting in an ordeal to wash them to at least use them at night.
My father-in-law spends his mornings and afternoons listening to his favorite music, as this serves as mental therapy and helps him to relax, of course under my supervision so that my wife has time to do other.
por ende toda aquellas personas que tengan un familiar con condiciones de salud se debe usar la comprencion y paciencia, que es una virtud que nace a traves de sacrificio por el projimo,por que bendito es el hijo que cuida de sus padres y no de aislarlo en instituciones privada o del estado , por que ellos aun asi tambien tienen sentimientos a flor de piel.
therefore all those people who have a family member with health conditions should use understanding and patience, which is a virtue that is born through sacrifice for the neighbor, because blessed is the child who takes care of his parents and not to isolate him in private or state institutions, because even so they also have feelings to the surface.
“HIJO INTEGRA A TUS PADRES COMO SI FUERA UN PIGMENTO DE TU PIEL,ASI COMO ELLO TAMBIEN LO HICIERON POR NOSOTROS”
"SON, INTEGRATE YOUR FATHER AS IF HE WERE A PIGMENT OF YOUR SKIN, JUST AS THEY DID FOR US".
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