Having someone who hates and displeased with our achievement is something that's not pleasant, isn't it? Imagine receiving negative comments and insinuations about yourself and your achievement. must be bad days to live it all out.
Our enemies, competitors, or haters are all the same. they are unhappy with our success and try to beat our achievements. and we don't like them either.
So what if I said that instead of feeling depressed about the various pressures they put on, and hating them. we should like and be grateful we have them. yes you heard it right, we should be grateful to have them.
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So why should we be grateful for having enemies?
the answer is because they give us motivation to keep going and be better than them, and they indirectly make us successful. and believe me, the drive for success because we don't wanna be humiliated by our enemies or our haters is a big motivation compared to the wise words of a motivator.
Lots of people are successful because they have enemies and don't wanna be humiliated. look at how a Ferruccio Lamborghini who succeeded with his Lamborgini car brand, just because he was hurt and didn't accept the humiliation of his rival, Enzo Ferrari, who at that time told Lamborghini to think only about tractors, no need to dream of creating a sports car.
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and Ferruccio Lamborgini proved that he can and as we know that Lamborgini is one of the leading sports car brands today.
We can also see the success of a country in East Asia, South Korea which has succeeded in becoming one of the largest economies in the world today, because they feel threatened by North Korea, and are also motivated to defeat Japanese industry which has colonized them for 35 years.
And there are many stories that are similar to the story of lamborgini and south korea, and they managed to use various insults to motivate their success.
This post doesn't mean that we need to have enemies or haters to success, no it's not. this is just a message about how we should deal with them, (if you have enemies), don't make their negative comments ruin our day, but make it a motivation to be better than them.
