If there is one thing anyone wants to experience, it is true friendship. Genuine friendship is the real gold in human form, something that the highest currency can't equate too and when we find that one who isn't family by blood yet is willing to go the extra for you then congratulations you've hit a jackpot.
A lot of people have lost valuables all because they came in contact with wolf in sheep clothing that's why whether online or physical we value true relationships.
For the years I've spent on social media, God has blessed me with a few friendships that I value and will continue too. Despite the fact we've not established a physical contact, I am in awe of how these dudes still stick around like....why this so much trust from an individual who you've not met before? Well I still can't answer that question till date but each time i am grateful for them. But then, as much as I am tempted to say I love online friendship because you guys don't meddle in anybody's activities and whatever you know about me is what I want you to know. But truth a face to face friendship build bond more. You get to give them a warm hug, feel them, lean on their shoulders and vice versa. Sometimes we go through stuff that all we need is less talk and more of their presence .
Just like physical relationships are important to me, so do my online relationships. We share so much that when we start communicating, rubbing our minds together, you think we've seen each other. There was this lady I met sometime in 2020, during the COVID period in one of our sisters group. I just liked her vibes and how she commented politely on some posts. Casually I chatted her up because I like her vibes and although I have not known her but I felt comfortable and she was welcoming too. The relationship was just a casual one for over two years just hi, hello and stuff like that, nothing serious. Not until one day just like every other normal greetings boom! that unusual conversation took a turn in our relationship. We exchanged contacts and began talking more deeply. We grew from just being normal friends to online sisters that her siblings know me and so do mine. We both advise ourselves and plan how to deal with the other gender too because we've both been through a lot in their hands fa!
To bust your bubbles, I believe no relationship is genuine until proven otherwise. Like most of the relationships I have lost is as a result of one thing which is money. Now I just tell them I don't have because I don't want to loose anymore friendships 🥺 except maybe it's important and urgent that even when I don't have I even go as far as borrowing from other sources. But for this one I wanted to be sure of the kind of person I am dealing with. So I requested her account details last year, gave her some money to keep for me and she obliged. Guys I unexpectedly requested for my money and this lady did give it back to me in full no form of delay. Honestly I can't wait to meet her and soon we would.💃 the only difference the relationship is experiencing is the absence of each other's presence, else nothing more than good vibes.
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