I hope you achieve your goals. I had hoped and prayed that my children would be close, My brother sister and myself were distant for much of our adult lives but we have reunited again. My children, unfortunately, do not have a tight bond with one another. My oldest child, my daughter is at complete odds with me and will not speak to me. We as parents can only love them and guide them in the best direction that we know how to do. Best wishes for the new year!