Hola reciban un cordial y amoroso saludo a todos los Hivers, en especial a la comunidad de @Motherhood. Mi nombre es Claudis , usuario de hive 
Hello receive a warm and l
oving greeting to all Hivers, especially the community of @Motherhood. My name is Claudis, hive user
Mi vida como madre , persona y mujer ha estado rodeada de muchos episodios que marcaron totalmente mi entorno, desde muy joven crei en el amor , me casé a plena juventud y me convertí en madre a muy temprana edad, mi primer hijo ya hace 26 años me lleno de alegrias y mucha satisfacción, con el aprendí el sentido de responsabilidad de sobrellevar una relación familiar, muchas noches de insomnio y aquellas cosas que por instinto debía aprender y que no eran facil de manejar.
My life as a mother, person and woman has been surrounded by many episodes that totally marked my environment, since I was very young I believed in love, I got married at a very young age and became a mother at a very young age, my first son 26 years ago filled me with joy and much satisfaction, with him I learned the sense of responsibility to cope with a family relationship, many sleepless nights and those things that by instinct I had to learn and that were not easy to handle.
No obstante; al pasar el tiempo mi hijo ya no era un bebé fue creciendo y me dediqué exclusivamente a su crianza y sus cuidados y hacia lo imposible por que su vida estuviera completa en todos los sentidos y no le faltará nada , emocionalmente económicamente , en cuanto a su papá era muy dedicado a su hijo y trabajaba para mantener esa estabilidad , sin embargo , nuestra relacion como pareja dejo de funcionar en muchos sentidos , afectando nuestra vida diaria hasta el punto de separarnos y nos divorciamos en mutuo acuerdo, aunque fue difícil ese largo proceso pero fue lo mas aceptado para ambos.
>However, as time went by, my son was no longer a baby, he grew up and I dedicated myself exclusively to his upbringing and care and did everything possible so that his life would be complete in every way and he would not lack anything, emotionally and economically, as for his father, he was very dedicated to his son and worked to maintain that stability, however, our relationship as a couple stopped working in many ways, affecting our daily life to the point of separating and we divorced by mutual agreement, although it was difficult that long process but it was the most acceptable for both of us.
Sin embargo eso no nos limitó a seguir adelante y darle una buena educación a nuestro hijo , por otro lado , desde ese momento crecí como persona y empecé a realizarme en el plano profesional , no habia continuado mis estudios, ingrese a la universidad y después de muchos sacrificios logre egresar como licenciada en Educación.
However, that did not limit us to move forward and give our son a good education, on the other hand, from that moment I grew as a person and began to realize myself professionally, I had not continued my studies, I entered the university and after many sacrifices I managed to graduate with a degree in Education.
Esos años fueron maravillosos , conocí e interactue con muchas personas, hice amistades que aun perduran en el tiempo, realice viajes conocí muchos lugares y disfrute de una vida plena llena de interesantes momentos , de algún modo estaba viviendo lo que en su momento no hice, siendo esta una experiencia magnifica que dejo muchos aprendizajes significativos.
Those years were wonderful, I met and interacted with many people, I made friendships that still last in time, I made trips I met many places and enjoyed a full life full of interesting moments, somehow I was living what I did not do at the time, this being a magnificent experience that left many significant learning.
En fin , me gradué y no ejerci en su momento debido que era difícil adquirir un cargo en mi área,pero seguí capacitandome en otros trabajos y así paso el tiempo. Luego de 20 años de libertad plena y solo con la responsabilidad unica de mi hijo , volví a tocar el plano amoroso, estableci una nueva relación con una persona que en su momento parecía lo mejor de la vida y sin duda alguna me enamoré y me entregue por completo a ese amor que me agocijaba en ese momento y decidí ondar en plano maternal nuevamente , era madre por segunda vez , lo cual era aun mas difícil, representaba un nuevo comienzo despues de tantos años, fue un proceso duro era volver a empezar , los trasnochos nuevas rutinas, dejar el trabajo las fiestas los viajes como soltera , en fin fueron momentos intensos pero a la vez hermosos, era emocionante despues de tanto tiempo tener otro niño en mis brazos; aun cuando mi hijo mayor ya era todo un hombre. No obstante ; a eso sali por tercera vez embarazada, siendo este el episodio que marcó mi vida para siempre.
Anyway, I graduated and did not work at the time because it was difficult to acquire a position in my area, but I continued training in other jobs and so time went by. After 20 years of full freedom and only with the sole responsibility of my son, I returned to touch the plane of love, I established a new relationship with a person who at the time seemed the best of life and no doubt I fell in love and I gave myself completely to that love that exhausted me at that time and I decided to go into the maternal plane again, I was a mother for the second time, which was even more difficult, it represented a new beginning after so many years, it was a hard process, it was starting all over again, the late nights, new routines, leaving work, parties, traveling as a single woman, in short, they were intense moments but at the same time beautiful, it was exciting after so long to have another child in my arms; even though my oldest son was already a man. Nevertheless, I became pregnant for the third time, and this was the episode that marked my life forever.
La vida que espere tener por mucho tiempo se desmoronó por completo, aquel amor que tanto espere, no era más que un engaño , salieron a flote cosas que ignoraba completamente y que me afectaron considerablemente , en el embarazo , tuve que sobrellevar sola en momentos tan difíciles que afectaba al pais , en plena pandemia, fueron muchas situaciones que intervinieron en mi salud física y emocional , hasta el punto de presentar preeclampsia, a los 8 meses de gestación , me tuvieron que practicar cesárea de emergencia y presente eclampsia (Síndrome de Hell) , convulsione durante la cirugía quedando en terapia intensiva por 10 días, tuve en el abismo de la muerte , gracias a dios mi bebé nació relativamente sano, muy bajo de peso pero pudo salvarse,aunque actualmente presenta algunos episodios de convulsiones, situaciones que mas adelante les contaré, pero ya cuenta con 3 años . Aun no recuerdo absolutamente nada de lo que me paso en emergencia , solo puedo decir que estoy aquí y es lo importante .
The life I hoped to have for a long time fell apart completely, that love that I had hoped for so long, was nothing more than a deception, things that I was completely unaware of came to light and that affected me considerably, in pregnancy, I had to cope alone in such difficult times that affected the country, in the middle of the pandemic, there were many situations that intervened in my physical and emotional health, to the point of presenting preeclampsia, At 8 months of gestation, I had to have an emergency cesarean section and I had eclampsia (Hell's Syndrome), I convulsed during surgery and was in intensive care for 10 days, I was in the abyss of death, thank God my baby was born relatively healthy, very low weight but could be saved, although currently has some episodes of seizures, situations that later I will tell you, but it is already 3 years old. I still do not remember absolutely nothing of what happened to me in the emergency, I can only say that I am here and that is the important thing.
Actualmente puedo decir que soy una madre afortunada de tener mis tres hermosos hijos a mi lado, aun con tantas dificultades hay que tener esperanza y mucha fuerza de voluntad para seguir adelante. Por eso es propicio agradecer estos espacios que nos ayudan a expresar libremente experiencias y compartir contenidos que nos ayuden a aprender cada día más, Espero seguir contándole sobre mi , gracias a todos , un placer estar aqui .
Currently I can say that I am a lucky mother to have my three beautiful children by my side, even with so many difficulties you have to have hope and a lot of willpower to move forward. That is why it is appropriate to thank these spaces that help us to freely express experiences and share content that help us learn more every day, I hope to continue telling you about me, thank you all, a pleasure to be here.
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* Text is original by @claudisrondon and Photos taken from my phone J2 core and My Facebook and edited in canvas.