I don't think anyone is ever ready for big things like this. We just become ready.
Actually kaya di ko pa maisip talaga na sundan muna si Aya kasi baka nga makulangan na ng time for her. But seeing you, and my sister, and my friends na may 2 or more kiddos, I think it just doubles the love we have for our children. Wala pa namang kasunod ang ayapot ko pero siguro if mangyari nga, malalaman ko na lang ma ready na pala ako. Haha.
RE: The unexpected blessings, and I am not prepared as I thought