I sometimes wonder thinking if we all can learn how to walk alone in life, there will be less misery. There are many times in life when we all feel that we need to walk alone, we need to make our own journey. But it's always difficult to make the decision. Fear and uncertainty are two major factors which can't let us do so. And who so ever have decided to walk alone, have overcome these two and get the courage.
So, how did they do it?
A major event or a traumatic one leads us to take the decision to walk alone. Also, in many cases when society things we make the wrong choice, when we don't get any support, we decide to walk alone to achieve our dream. Whatever the reason is, gathering courage is the main fact. But as courage is a personal stat, I mean we all have different level, so it's better to power up our courage first!
Start your personal journey. Don't depend on any other's approval or help. Yeah, sometimes it's necessary but if no one is supporting your positive and right thing, then go alone. decide who you actually are, what do you want. what's your fear and insecurities are. Nothing is more important than knowing who you are and what you want.
Step outside the line with a smile. If you are not in order, don't worry. Brush your shoulder off and move forward. It's your journey and if you believe in yourself you will make it, no matter what. Keep your own plan and don't sit for the others. Keep smiling and push all the odds.
Walking alone, making our own journey is not easy. But it also not means we can't connect with family, friends or anyone. Rather, it means having everyone, just not depending on anyone to make your goal. We all have the courage to do that. Just need the right trigger!