Because yes, the imaginary scenario in our heads feels satisfying. We win the fight. We defeat evil. We gain respect. We punish those who “deserve” it.
Yeah we may have to fake restraint, practice metacognition and take the time to think about how we think. But it often will be better if those who don't deserve it, always count with their lucky quarter if they are in front of Anton Chigurh.
RE: On Anger and Self-Control