A good ethos to have as life is there to be lived,not wasted with the unimportant as many do. People with your ethos tend to live fuller lives methinks.

It's funny that people look at the success (or lives) of others as if it has all come so easily; in truth many things combine to bring success, fulfillment, comfort, enjoyment or whatever measure people use to define their life. It doesn't happen overnight. Those who observe others like you say are often the ones who will never take the steps required to have it for themselves. Jealousy, envy and the emotions they inspire, seems an easier option to those types.

Ownership. Responsibily. Effort. Courage. Perseverance. Honesty. Respect. Humility. Drive. Attitude.