I think it goes as one age. But I do agree, when I was younger, there was this rich guy we always hang out with, we simply just agree to what he says, in the end, he treated us meals or drinks or smoke every time. But as I grow older, I soon decided to cut ties with him. He was a good friend, but I just couldn't stand up to him anymore. As I age, I also understand the difference between "conversation" & "talking" means.
RE: Win conversation or understand them?