I don't think it is wrong to act differently at work than outside of work. I'm sure you still showed similar characteristics of yourself in both places, just toned it down while on the job. Most of us do that. I actually talked about it in one of my podcasts. I think it was the Conflict with Authority podcasts. I mentioned that my Social Psychology professor told us that studies show that the more educated a person is, the more likely they are going to understand how to adapt their personality to the roles they are assigned in life. Sounds like you are the smarter one to me lol.