When I was younger I would have agreed with you. The back and forth, the friction, the insecurity gave things a tang. And then the relief of making up again. Yes, I remember those days!

My husband and I have been married almost 39 years. Yes, we still disagree on things, even have arguments. But, without either one of us always giving in to keep the peace, we have learned to get to the point, communicate our concerns, suggest compromises, and move on. Insecurity and drama have lost their attraction!