Hello dear friends !
Some lessons may become harder and harder to understand if you face life from the start with an open heart of beauty. Then you have to taste bitter to see your loved ones wither, in front of you, day after day, under the burden of torment can not understand the cause. Then you find that you, too, understand, but not ordinary understanding, but "you understand with a burning" meaning that people treat you better if you are handsome.
One of the hardest things I've realized, after age twenty-two, is that people treat you more gently if you're beautiful handsome. Beauty is the beauty of the face. She built a beautiful shape and completely empty of the interior often received a warm welcome does not deserve in exchange for the girl is not beautiful shape and beautiful spirit can be deprived of the simplest feelings, even natural rights, for which it has no hand.
Perhaps the rule "people treat you more gently if you are handsome" is more obvious at the female level. The beauty of a physical girl literally opens her doors. Which may close forever in the face of others because it is not beautiful even if they deserve it ..! "A little science, a little morals and a lot of femininity dominate a lot of science, a lot of morality and a little femininity." That's the rule.
Nothing is harsher, a girl in her early age, who refuses to be because she is not "female or attractive or pretty or .. etc." and what? The question is born and grows in my head as a baby that requires weaning. there is a solution. Yes there is a solution but it may seem a little vulgar. But let's be realistic. The vandals and vandals enjoy an easy and comfortable life. While we did not escape from towers of high-quality ideals not withering into an unfair world of longitude latitudes.
To a problem is no longer just a psychological pain caused by marginalization or rejection based on physical standards. More difficult, we found a solution, and we refuse to use it. Can a girl who has raised a conservative education give up some of her reservation and show some "softness" and " as the boat walks?
Girls who believe that the beauty of their soul is the secret of their femininity, and all those naive phrases, may not be aware of the extent of the ugliness of reality. A girl who does not care about her femininity and takes care of her as a cultivator grows slowly, carefully, and takes care of her moral and spiritual state. She does not care about her beauty, I mean beauty of appearance. Of course she will always remain with her spiritual beauty in the frind zon / sister, but they will always love you but always as a sister or friend. Is the bitter truth.
My words may seem biased. One might say that females also seek to connect with the handsome person. Truth, no. Girls are usually not so, and of course there are exceptions and there are girls who tend to the handsome man. But the girl usually seeks the gentleman, although his form is not handsome. Valosama here does not stand in the link. Perhaps this is due to the fact that every girl is a natural mother, even though she has not yet given birth. Women, by nature, deal with motherhood with the other side / males. There is no mother whose son is incomplete because he is not handsome ..!
The idea of linking beauty with the beauty of form is an ancient trick of prehistoric times. People treat you better if you are beautiful since eternity and forever. Whether this is unjust or unfair, crying will not work. The vengeance and discontent of humankind will not change the truth of the matter. Instead, you may want to keep reading and browsing sites about femininity, beauty and etiquette as much as browsing social networking sites.
Once again, thank you very much for your kindness!
