i also don't feel shame and really don't want to feel shame for my mind......for me, sex is the expression of pure love and i really don't feel shame with my feelings. but people around me making me bound to feel that i am dirty....my intention is wrong.....i should feel shameful....may be for them i am just like a lower life animal...:-(. Yes you are right, self love is very important and good. but i didn't practice that so much in my life.....and i am a male. female body are very artistic...well decorated....beautiful....poetic....romantic and so on.....there are so many things are there to feel and discover in a female body!!! but nothing or you can say not that much in male body......i just have a fucking dick that get hard and very annoying if not calm down when it is hard. anyways thanks for your feelings and care dear....-:)