Have you thought: "I want that too"? It's normal! To think in this way.
Many times the inspiration we find in others can be a powerful engine to achieve our own goals.
Really, by observing those who have already traveled the path, we can identify strategies, overcome obstacles and discover new possibilities. It's like having a detailed map that guides us towards our dreams.
Let us remember that: We all learn from others, either consciously or unconsciously.
Observing those who have achieved their goals gives us a valuable learning opportunity.
Observing how others achieve their goals can be the map, the flashlight that illuminates what we need to achieve the goals of each of us.
One of the big problems we face when starting a new year is that, although we feel the impulse to want to change, we are still trapped in the same emotional state that has kept us immobile. We want a different destiny, but we refuse to work on our emotions. We fall in love with the idea of purpose, but avoid the real effort involved in fulfilling it. Do you see that?
Let me give you an example:
Out of ten (10) people who enter the gym where I train, in this month that begins January 2025, seven (7) people stop going in February. That is to say, several people decide to start a path of internal, biological and physical change, but their unconscious minds are stronger and they do not follow, they literally abandon everything.
Hopefully in the month of June or so those who stay in the gym, on the path of integral health, will begin to see the results. And by the way, don't sabotage yourself to stop changing because it doesn't suit your egos.
Definitely the shadow does not like to be illuminated with a flashlight, I think Mr. Hyde is annoyed that they observe the dark, malevolent and destructive side of the personality of those who oppose their desires and moral values.
Sometimes we have to be very rude against our EGO, we have no choice. It is time to create our own vision, seeking the necessary help, to no longer be a spectator of our life.
Destiny is not expected, it is conquered.How are we going to build goals if we still don't know how to manage our emotions?
If we continue to let our vision of life depend on what is happening outside, we are going to stay watching how others move forward while we continue the same "stagnant".
Look, the truth is that the purpose is not found, it is built. Emotions don't guide you to your goals alone; you need to direct them to where you want to go. These days I have seen that if the vision board, the agenda; the map, and none of that is magical, they are just tools that remind us daily where we are going.
It is essential to stop waiting for fate to give us results and start taking action with determination. Breathing, seeking calm, is fundamental for emotional and mental health. Our life will not change only with wishes, it will change with decisions and actions.
Janitze 🦋
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