It's called serenity.
How difficult it is to maintain a healthy internal dialogue with ourselves… Without realizing it, we usually say very hurtful things to each other, and almost always without understanding
where that voice comes from.
Unaware that most of the time it has its origin in our childhood and accompanies us like an unconscious weight.
In order for us to live or experience love, we will first have to learn to love and talk to each other as we would with someone you love.
I am left with this beautiful reflection and a good message to remember daily. Love and dreams are still the way, even, and especially, when there is fear. Because it's really not about denying the pain or disguising the wounds.
It is about understanding that fear cannot be the compass of our life, on the contrary, let's learn to cross that threshold, and there we will see our own advancement, our own evolution.
I'm talking about living with meaning, with purpose.
In my vision of things, to love and to dream is to resist without ceasing to be oneself, without paying attention to what they will say or stopping in fear for not fulfilling the expectations of others.
From my experience I see it as building without being trapped by fear. It is to be a practitioner of love, it is the best opportunity to establish bonds with others and be protagonists of our goals, leaving traces for the mere fact of having dared to challenge ourselves, seeking to always be better people, better humans, never perfect, but authentic and committed to our happiness …
Without neglecting empathy, solidarity and the desire to give the best of ourselves to those who really need it and value it.
In times where many walk with a dull soul, remembering this is urgent.
Because loving and dreaming, even with fear, is the only thing that saves us from "surviving” and connects us with the truth of life: we came to be happy and from there let's achieve that happiness and that fulfillment that love really gives meaning to our existence.
And when you look back, you will not only see the pain, but also the person you were able to become in the middle of the storm. "Your battle today... will be your pride tomorrow."
If we allow it, fear plunges us into its depths, as well as into the ocean. To do it, with fear, but to do it.
When you are faced, you say "Yes I can!!... Here I come!". You become a Being who surfs the wave of love and it is Unstoppable!.
How nice it would be if we all applied that of dreaming more, but there are always more fears and not only to love but to an endless number of things!!!
That's why I will always insist that with everything and fear, we dare to live to the fullest. And if fear paralyzes us, seeking help is essential to get through it even when the soul is broken.
That's knowing how to chart your dreams and fill your life with passion for what you do and want; it undoubtedly takes that engine called heart and its fuel: You Win. And so, many people come to give us and leave us a message, which transcends and leaves us a learning.
We can all decide and move forward with our goals and dreams.
Janitze 🌹
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