It's better to fall than ...

To be hanging ...

Sometimes, all we need to get out of the quagmires is to be spoken to directly and openly. I prefer to be told things no matter how crude they are 🤔.

It is important to listen in order to understand, without answering anything, just letting the other verbalize his thoughts and then evaluate if it is congruent with what he does, how he lives and what he says.

Common sense and intuition do not fail to evaluate who is a good or bad person... unless our ego distracts us and we listen to nothing but our own thinking hindering communication.

We are imperfect human beings therefore doing every day the task of improving....well, some of them!
In fact, when you feel stuck in your comfort zone and we all know that feeling of insecurity when we have to make an important decision or do something out of the ordinary.

It's normal to be afraid, but that fear may be holding back your growth.

Today I want to talk to you about why stepping out of your comfort zone is crucial for your personal development and how you can do it without letting fear control us.

Magic happens when you dare to take that step, and the best thing is that you don't have to do it all at once. What I write always reminds me that growth begins when you decide to leave the known. For me, life is made up of pleasure. If you are not happy, you are not living well and your duty is to start on the path of being happy.

Sometimes you have to send everything to hell. And when you do, you realize that you took too long to do it, especially because of the relief you feel.

Nothing like peace of mind.
Too late I thought about sending everything to hell. But how good it feels now 💯. The wait is over. Because peace inhabits the present moment.

It's always easier to criticize others from a moralistic position, but in my view of things, you have to put away the magnifying glass, take out the mirror and reflect 🔥. I live according to what I want, no matter what they say.

Everyone chooses how to live their life and no one should interfere in our choices, especially if they do not directly affect us.

Only those who know their own story can tell how much it has cost them to move forward with their own dreams.

By the way, a couple of years ago I made the attempt to work out with pole dancing 🫣😅 I had to change this fun and hard-working discipline because of an injury, in my left foot (sprain) thank God already overcome.

A fundamental question: Are you missing out on life because you are afraid to live it? Let's talk about this. Tell me in the comments your experience or anecdote of when with everything and fear you launched to live something new.

Janitze 🦋