Toxic relationships come in different forms and people since we can find them at any time and from whom we least expect, that is why a toxic relationship always comes from people with low self-esteem, with little self-esteem and that only their world has revolved around the toxic, bad relationships of their childhood and everything that has had to battle in life, although I am not an expert on this subject I wanted to make this publication to see how it can be managed and what we can learn to not fall into them. When we face a toxic relationship there is always something that makes us think that nothing is like the others, but it is at that moment when we realize that we have fallen and there is no turning back, unless we put a little of our part and do it, but a toxic relationship could come from love to family, it is best to know how to attack in time, because they only bring us is negative things to our lives.

A toxic relationship is sometimes very unlikely to detect because they start with a thousand wonders, although a little authoritarian, then it becomes very intense, to the limit that becomes toxic, basically it is when there comes a time in the relationship when nothing can be supported and jealousy also becomes present, for a toxic relationship reaches a limit both parties put their side to make it so, although we see times when only one person is who makes the commotion, but it is better to detect in time to not fall into them easily. In my life and throughout my years I have gone through toxic relationships, those where they do not even let you move without their permission, where all your steps are calculated until the time comes when it becomes very serious and even violent, that is the part where we do not want or have to let the toxic part take us, although the best we can do for a person like that, is to get away as far as we can.

One way to identify a toxic person, is when this begins to place limits in a relationship whether family, friendship or love, is when we begin to place rules that do not benefit us at all, it is a relationship where those involved are able to do what the other says without right of reply, it is like a prison that we have from which we can not leave, But with the help of others if you can get out of this place very well, because being with a toxic person is to be bitter, with nerves and with enormous pressure in our life, it is almost that we can not even breathe, the best thing for them is to get away as much as we can and do it early until it is too late, so it is good to know how to detect these people in time. One way to see beyond a toxic person is in their speech, they are authoritarian people, with a lot of talk and sometimes they are people who have a strong look, although they start with a thousand loves, but once they have you it is difficult to let go, then in the end what we have left is to be surrendered to the obligations of these people to the limit that we lose friendships and even our family.

As I said before, getting out of them is a little difficult, but not impossible, the best we can do is to accept that we are with someone toxic, then we must know how to put limits between these people and us, even if we win the fear or despair is the best we can do, but as long as this is in places where we are accompanied because these people are often violent and we do not know what they are capable of doing, and finally move away, this can be naturally, although there are times that we can not and we must move away even city, this only when it is an extreme case. Toxic people are narcissistic people, of which we must analyze from an instant not to fall into their clutches because a healthy relationship is when people support each other and their ideals are respected, above all, this goes in any area of relationship as it is normal in couples and families, a healthy relationship there are no rules or limits, no envy or resentment.